I Want My Ex Boyfriend Back - How Mindset Plays A Role In Winning Him Back

Published: 04th August 2011
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No one ever wants to cope with a breakup, but relationships end every single day. However, they also begin anew every single day.

If you've just watched your very own, real life Prince Charming walk out the door, then you're probably experiencing the pain, frustration, confusion, and depression that comes along with figuring out if you want him back and if you do, how to go about getting him back. You may even be wondering if it's actually possible to get him back in the first place.

Ask yourself the following questions to determine if you're ready to repair the relationship.

Do you have the mindset that you CAN get him back?

If you're currently questioning your ability to get him back and aren't really sure if you can, then you won't. Winning an ex back starts with believing you can get them back. Henry Ford once said, "If you think you can do a thing or think you can't do a thing, you're right." This quote can be applied to everything in life, including relationships.

If you don't believe you can, then no amount of breakup advice will help you because you'll continue to do things like beg, plead, apologize, and feel sorry for yourself that will continue to push him further away.

Have you come to terms with the breakup and accepted it?

Maybe you got dumped. Maybe you dumped him. Regardless, you must accept the breakup before you can move forward and work on winning him back. Accepting the breakup does not mean you give up getting your ex boyfriend back, but it does mean developing the mental attitude that no matter what happens, you're going to be ok and moving on won't be the end of the world.

If you don't develop a "moving on mentality", then you will continue to do things that push your ex further away rather than pulling and attracting him back to you. Attracting him back is the only way you'll succeed. Trying to push your way back into a relationship fails 100% of the time.

Are you willing to do whatever it takes to win him back?

Are you open to receiving advice from relationship experts who have helped countless others just like you? More importantly, are you willing to follow their advice even if it seems counter intuitive and suggests things like cutting off contact, becoming a little distant, and not being afraid to go out and be open to new possibilities with new people? Are you willing to follow a step-by-step, proven guide to getting your ex back even if it costs you a few bucks to obtain it?

If you're not willing to seek out and accept help from experts who know exactly what you're going through, then you aren't yet ready to get your ex boyfriend back. This stuff isn't taught in school and we all need a little help. The people who fail are the people who believe they can figure it out all on their own.

The problem with that approach is you end up making too many critical mistakes along the way that can push your ex away for good. Believe you can, follow good advice, and more than likely you WILL get your ex back.


Next, now is the time to get your boyfriend back using a step-by-step, proven plan that won't leave you guessing about what to do next. If you really want to create the intense attraction in your ex that will bring him back to you, then understand exactly what he wants and needs after the breakup and make him love you all over again by visiting: Win Him Back

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