I Want to Get My Ex Boyfriend Back - What Should I Do Next?

Published: 29th June 2011
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After a bad breakup when the emotionally charged feelings subside and you've had a chance to think clearly, you may find yourself wanting to change things. You start asking yourself, "Is there any way to get my ex boyfriend back?" It's possible you've even tried to start the process, but everything you do seems to just push your ex further away.

If you want to save your relationship and get your ex boyfriend back, here are some tips to help you.

The first thing you need to do to get your ex back is to stop pressuring. It's natural to want your ex back fast when you want to save the relationship, but the best thing you can do is actually to step back and give your ex space

Pursuing him through phone calls, driving over to his house, sending emails, or mass texting every day will only make him feel pressured and will push your ex further away. Begging your ex to take you back will only make you look weak, pathetic, and unattractive so stop it right now.

You may be thinking, "If that strategy won't work, then what CAN I do to get my ex boyfriend back?" Reverse your thinking and take a fresh approach to win back your ex.

This may seem counter intuitive, but leaving your ex alone, breaking off contact, and doing your own thing gives you the best chance of getting your ex boyfriend back. Take time to yourself, figure out what aspects of your relationship need worked on, hang out with friends, and cut communication off with your ex for a while. Stay disciplined or this won't work because you'll revert to your begging ways.

What's great about human nature is people want what they don't have. As soon as you stop pursuing your ex, his feelings for you will start to shift. He will begin to miss you because you aren't there. He will wonder what you are doing, who you are with, and why you stopped pursuing him.

You will become a mystery to your ex boyfriend, and the fear of losing you forever will set-in, forcing him to make a move to get you back. When you pursue him and smother him, you give him no chance to miss you or to fear losing you forever because he feels like you're still there all the time.

When I get asked, "What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back?", the answer is simply to work with human nature and not against it. Use fear of loss and the idea that people want what they don't have to your advantage by not smothering or begging, and by doing your own thing.

When you act like you don't care, that's when you become a mystery to your ex boyfriend and ultimately more attractive to him. That's what will make your ex boyfriend start wondering if he made the right decision walking away. He'll be reminded of how much he loves you, and will ultimately make the first move to remedy the relationship.

Remember, men want to be the hunter, not the hunted.

Keep these tips in mind and getting your ex boyfriend back doesn't have to be a hopeless situation.


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