There can be many reasons why women dump men. For example, a man might cheat on his girlfriend or a woman's husband might have an affair. The man might spend too much time with "the boys" hanging out at the bar. The relationship might just be full of constant arguing and fighting, or the relationship may even be abusive. The list goes on and on.
However, none of these examples reveal the true root of the problem. Ultimately, women dump men for one core reason. That core reason is a lack of appreciation.
Above all else in a relationship, a woman needs to feel appreciated. She will be loyal to the end through a lot of rough times until she starts feeling like her man no longer wants her, needs her, and, most importantly, no longer appreciates her and the things she does for him. One of the most common reasons a woman gives for leaving her man is, "He never appreciated anything I did for him."
If a man cheats on a woman it makes her feel incredibly unappreciated. However, there are thousands of women that stay in relationships even when they know their man cheated. Why?
In most of these cases, the man is doing something that makes the woman feel that her man still needs her and appreciates her in some way. In this example, it's easy to see that things like honesty, loyalty, and faithfulness are less important to a woman than even just a little bit of appreciation. An affair is never justified, but a relationship can still be salvaged under these circumstances.
When a woman no longer feels she is appreciated, then she will start to look for a relationship with someone else. She will dump her man for someone who showers her with attention and who doesn't take for granted who she is and all the little things she does in the relationship. A man who truly appreciates a woman for who she is and the things she does is intensely desirable. This is why women desire a man who will listen to them. Listening is a sign of care and appreciation.
Many men don't understand why women dump men because they mistake a need for appreciation with a need for attention. This misunderstanding causes men to see a woman as needy or "high maintenance". In most cases, it's not the attention she desires from her man. It's the feeling that he appreciates her when she calls to say "I love you" or when she leaves him a note or does his laundry just to be sweet.
Always remember that the number 1 reason why women dump men is a lack of appreciation in the relationship. Virtually any breakup where the woman leaves the man can be traced back to this in one form or another. By understanding this, it will be much easier to get your ex girlfriend back after a breakup and keep her this time.
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